Collection: Big Dildos

Go Big: Big Dildos

This one is for the size queens! Go big and choose a huge dildo for solo play with a suction cup base or insert into a harness to please your partner bigtime.

Why Choose a Big Dildo?

For some of us, bigger really is better. Big dildos deliver full sensations, generous amounts of pleasure, and massive orgasms. If you’re an experienced dildo user or you simply know that you like a big toy and an intense experience, you’re ready to shop our selection of big dildos.

How Big is Big?

A dildo is a sex toy that’s usually phallic (penis-shaped) and designed for penetrative stimulation, but dildos come in variations of all shapes and sizes. When choosing a dildo, take into account the length and girth of the toy. 

Length: this will affect how deeply the dildo can penetrate. Longer dildos are ideal for deep exploration, while shorter ones may be better for more precise sensations.

Girth: this refers to the circumference of the dildo toy, which affects feelings of fullness or stretch. Some prefer thicker styles for their intense girth, while others like a slimmer fit—it totally depends on your preference!

Often, large dildos are defined as being 8-10 inches or larger in insertable length and at or above 2-2.5 inches wide. In comparison, average dildo size is somewhat larger than average penis size—around 7.5 inches long and 1.5 inches wide.

Total Length Versus Insertable Length

It’s helpful to understand how dildos are measured when selecting a big dildo. The total length measures the full vertical measurement from tip to bottom end, including any attached features like testicles or suction cups. Insertable length refers to the insertable portion of the dildo and does not include any non-insertable features like testicles or suction cups. Insertable length is an important measurement because it will (literally) affect the depth of your experience.

A Note About Width Versus Girth

These are two different measurements. Width refers to the diameter, while girth refers to the circumference. For example, a 4.5 inch-girth toy would be about 1.4 inches wide.

Types of Big Dildos

When it comes to big dildos, there are many styles to choose from. Here are a few of our all-time favorites: 

Inflatable

Inflatable dildos come with integrated hand pumps, so you can insert and then inflate for a fuller sensation.

Textured

Nubby or beaded textures can enhance sensations with a large dildo. 

Double-ended

Use solo or with a partner for simultaneous stimulation. Typically one end is slightly larger than the other, so you can choose your own adventure.

Fantasy

Shop monster dildos that resemble the anatomy of actual monsters. Ever wondered what it would be like to get pegged by a dragon? This is your chance to find out.

Considerations When Choosing a Big Dildo

Material: choose a body-safe material like silicone for a soft, flexible experience; or glass or metal for something ultra firm and unyielding.

Lube: we can’t stress this enough—use plenty of lube with your dildo toys! Remember that silicone toys are not compatible with silicone lube, which can degrade them over time. We recommend using a water-based lube, as they are compatible with most toy types.

Explore Big Dildos at Love & Lust

If you’re ready for a big dildo, explore our endless collection of styles including inflatable dildos, double-ended, fantasy designs, and much more. Big pleasure awaits for you and your partner!

Not sure how to choose a size? Contact our helpful customer support team for more information.