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Clitoral Stimulant Creams & Gels: Female Orgasm Boosters

Clitoral Stimulant Creams & Gels: Female Orgasm Boosters

Your clitoris (and the nearby G-spot) deserves all the attention you can possibly give it. It’s easy to find all sorts of dildos, vibrators, and other toys to make sexy time fun, but you might get additional satisfaction from stimulating creams and gels.

Read on for more information on these sexual enhancement tools to help you decide whether you want to give one a try!

Understanding the Clitoris: What is the Clitoris?

For many people with female reproductive anatomy, the clitoris is the most sensitive part of the vulva. The vulva is the external section of your genitals that’s visible with the naked (ayyo!) eye. 

The clitoris has more than 10,000 nerve fibers, which make it extremely sensitive to touch and stimulation. (Source) It engorges when stimulated, as blood rushes to the location.

Where is the Clitoris?

The part of the clitoris that’s easily reachable from the outside is a pea-sized bit of flesh that sits at the top, or crest, of the labia minora. When we talk about the top of the vulva, we’re talking about the area closest to your stomach and belly button.

The outermost part of the clitoris is only one section of the clitoral network, which extends around four inches inside the body. This network works together to help you experience sexual pleasure.

Clitoral Orgasms versus Vaginal Orgasms

Did you know that stimulating the clitoris can result in a unique type of orgasm? Clitoral orgasms are different from vaginal orgasms, which occur during penetration, although you can experience both at the same time (blended).

Popular Clitoral Stimulants

Role of Clitoral Stimulants

Clitoral creams, gels, lubes, and other stimulants aim to increase pleasure emanating from the clitoris during masturbation or intercourse. They’re simply tools that can increase arousal and satisfaction for women and people with vaginas. Some users claim clitoral stimulants give them more intense orgasms.

Creams and Gels

Clitoral stimulant creams and gels are meant to be applied directly to the clitoris. Different creams have different ingredients, but many have either menthol or peppermint oil, which can produce tingly and vibrating sensations. 

Another key ingredient in clitoral creams is arginine, a neurotransmitter that helps increase blood flow to surfaces it’s applied to. (Source)

Supplements

We should at least mention in this guide that you can find over-the-counter supplements that contain arginine and other chemicals included in many creams. The main difference between supplements and creams lies in the time it takes to work. It’s wise to take supplements an hour or so before sexual activity, while topical creams often start working immediately or within a few minutes.

Maximizing Your Experience: 4 Tips for Using Clitoral Creams

The instructions on the bottles may seem straightforward, but there’s a lot you can do to make sure your clitoral creams work for YOU. 

1. A little dab will do.

Some products advise users to apply liberally, while others recommend the opposite. In our experience, it’s almost always better to start with a little bit—no larger than a dime-sized dab. If that amount isn’t working for you, work your way up until you start getting somewhere good.

2. Test it on your forearm.

Apply a little bit to the inside crease of your elbow to see how your more sensitive areas react to the cream. Some people get bad reactions to these gels, and it might be more bearable there than elsewhere.

3. Check ingredients before using with latex condoms.

Condoms are important in STI and unwanted pregnancy prevention. Oil-based clitoral gels can break down latex condoms and increase the chances of tears. Using toys with creams and gels can be ultra satisfying, but you might want to keep a close eye when using them together for the first time.

4. Use it in other places.

Sexually stimulating creams and gels often work well when applied to other erogenous zones. These include other parts of the vulva, breasts, butt cheeks, and even behind the ear lobes.

Clitoral Creams and Gels FAQs

Can clitoral stimulant creams cause an allergic reaction?

Sometimes, yes. Be sure to read over the ingredients of any product before using. Follow the instructions on the package for managing adverse reactions. 

Are all clitoral gels water-based?

No. Some are oil-based or silicone-based. Keep in mind that oil-based gels can degrade latex condoms, and silicone-based gels should not be combined with silicone toys.

Can people with penises use clitoral stimulant creams?

Absolutely! Almost any erogenous zone can receive pleasurable sensations from clitoral creams and gels, which typically have chemicals that either warm or cool the skin.

What if clitoral gels don’t work for me?

User experiences vary wildly with clitoral creams and gels. While some people may not feel much of anything, other users might experience overwhelming sensations and thus become sore. The wide range of effects underscores the importance of using a small amount for your first time to see how your body reacts.

How long do clitoral stimulant creams and gels last?

This is another area in which users’ experiences vary. Most creams and gels last between 30 minutes and two hours. Some, however, fade away rather quickly.Â